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Kalen Olson on The Power of Feminine Magnetism

25 Aug, 2025 9
Kalen Olson on The Power of Feminine Magnetism

How Women Can Reclaim Authentic Power Through Alchemy

When I first began exploring the idea of a woman’s magnetism, it felt like a breath of fresh air. The promise of attracting my heart’s desires after burnout seemed like a dream compared to my reality. Manifestation teachers spoke of letting life be easy, of drawing in joy and abundance. But when I tried this approach, I couldn’t tell if I was missing the lesson or being sold fluff.

Over time, I discovered that in order for magnetism to work for me personally—it needed to come through the ancient art of alchemy. This power, available to all women, is born from learning to sit with discomfort and transform pain into possibility.

We are living in a moment where women are reclaiming more power than we’ve seen in over 1,500 years. Women are running businesses, redefining relationships, and asking for what they truly want in life. I often reflect with gratitude on the generations before us who paved the way. Through my own studies and The Holy Woman Course with Ordained Priestess Sarah Jenks, I deepened my understanding of magnetism.

History shows us that before the Roman Empire, women held positions of power in societies all around the world. The Goddess was revered, communities were guided by collaboration, and priestesses were respected as keepers of knowledge. Women carried wisdom of the cosmos, practised alchemy, and shaped how societies governed and educated. With Rome’s rise, this shifted. Power became about control rather than community. Women’s land rights disappeared, their influence diminished, and a top-down approach replaced the circle. Storytelling of women in their power—like Mary Magdalene and other wisdom keepers—was wiped from our collective history.

That shift also changed our relationship to power itself. Power became status-driven, divorced from love and heart. But control is not true power. Today, the tides are turning again. The popularity of astrology, tarot, and even witch-inspired décor isn’t just a trend—it reflects a collective remembering. Women are weaving ancient wisdom into business, spirituality, and self-growth.

For me, manifestation rooted only in positivity fell short. Alchemy, however, awakened the magnetic capacity inherent in every woman’s design.

The breakthrough came when I stopped resisting discomfort. By staying with the hard moments as much as the joyful ones, I discovered life’s cyclical nature. Creation comes in waves, like the ocean or childbirth—each phase requiring both endurance and surrender. Remaining present through growing pains brought the blessings close behind. This deepened my fortitude, not from martyrdom, but from a willingness to hold the vision with patience.

Nicole Daedone, founder of Orgasmic Meditation, once noted that women often turn away right before their power activates. That threshold is uncomfortable—and yet, it’s where true power lies. This insight resonated with me. The manifestation methods that teach ease first as a cause, instead of as an effect, bypass discomfort. These easy-breezy practices never worked for me because they skipped the alchemical process that is as natural as life itself.

A seed is first planted in the darkness of soil before it can bloom. I learned not to run but to expand my capacity to hold more. This, to me, is women’s power: staying present in discomfort and learning to surrender until the new begins to magnetise.

The masculine offers structure, but the feminine receives. Realising this illuminated why burnout and disconnection have haunted women since Rome’s dominance. The spark of power, however, still lies within a woman’s body—waiting to be ignited.

As I expanded my capacity for discomfort, unease softened into ripples. Over time, those ripples transformed into the magnetism of my heart’s desires; arriving as if by surprise. Life began to feel easier, not because I forced positivity, but because I remembered the art of alchemy—an inheritance dormant and available to every woman.

The world can feel like a shit show, but I wouldn’t trade living in this time for anything: a moment where women are reclaiming their authentic, magnetic power, and rewriting history by stepping fully into themselves.